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I keep forgetting things
Capture the thing once, then tie the reminder to a time, a place, or something you already do.
What this feels like
It was in your head. Something else came. It left. Then later someone asks about it and there is that drop in your stomach — because from outside, forgetting looks exactly like not caring, and you have no way to prove otherwise.
What might be going on
Two different things get called forgetting, and they need different fixes:
- Losing information while it is being given to you — three instructions in, the first one is gone.
- Losing an intention between deciding and doing — you meant to send it, you thought about it twice, you did not send it.
- Ordinary load: too many open loops, poor sleep, stress, or simply being interrupted constantly.
- No single capture place, so things land in four different apps and none of them is checked.
Try this now
Capture it, then give it a cue
Pick the thing you are most likely to forget this week. Write it down once, in the one place you will actually look. Then attach it to something real — not to “later”.
Write the thing down in your one capture place. Under five seconds.
Choose a cue that genuinely happens: a time with an alarm on it, a place you will physically be, or a routine you already do.
Say it as one sentence: “When ⟨cue⟩, I will ⟨action⟩.”
If it is a physical object, put the object in the path — on your shoes, on the door handle, next to the kettle.
Answer these three prompts and we will turn them into steps.
Your steps
0 stepsYour one next action
Your one next action
Choose your single capture place today and put it on your phone’s home screen, or in the pocket you always use. One place. If you keep four, you have none.